Love smarter
Ah yes, as if I don't have enough dating woes to begin with, let's throw a metamour into the mix. For those of you unfamiliar with the basics of polyamory, a metamour is your partner's partner. Without arduously detailing specifics, my wearisome experience with the aforementioned is rocky, at best. Sure, being someone's side chick unbeknownst to you is not so fun, but perhaps with open communication from the get, dating someone in an open relationship can work? Maybe... or maybe I'll never know. It all began when I hit it off with a tall, techie, musician type - a Silicon Valley trifecta. Greek looks with mossy green eyes, a creative mind, a somehow masculine affinity for glitter, and a propensity for adventure. Of course, it was not until I became throughly enamored with the potential I unab ashedly projected our shared reformed-scene-kid aesthetic that he divulged his open long distance relationship status. My response to the wily cosmos was a resounding "